Lately, the theme of "letting go" has been everywhere. It’s coming up in my coaching sessions, it’s showing up in my meditation circles, and truth be told—I’m deep in the middle of it myself. 

Sometimes letting go is quiet and heavy, like saying goodbye to a loved one. It’s been a year since my granny passed, and lately, the miss feels even sharper. As her house is sold and her treasures are shared among the family, we aren’t just moving furniture—we are releasing a former time and place to keep her spirit alive in a new way. 

This is the work my clients are doing right now, too. Here’s the beautiful, radical truth: when you finally say yes to what you truly want, you are inherently saying goodbye to what no longer fits. Whether it’s an old job title, a soul-draining routine, or a version of yourself you’ve outgrown, you have to clear the space for a more aligned, vibrant fit.

We see it in our biggest life transitions—falling in love, building a home, growing a family. To become part of a "we," we have to let go of the total independence of the "me." We trade the quiet mornings and solo decisions for something bigger, richer, and more complex. 

We all want to level up to that elite, next-level state of being. But we can’t get there without honoring the sadness that comes with the departure. Feeling that loss isn’t a setback—it’s a necessary, healthy bridge to your new life. 

The path forward isn’t around these challenging emotions; it’s straight through them. 

When you actually feel them, you give yourself the permission to say a real, soulful goodbye.

So, take a moment to thank your former self. You did the absolute best you could with the tools you had at the time. 

Wrap that version of you in love and set them free. 

In my Tuesday night meditation group, the collective call was for one thing: forgiveness. It is almost always the gateway. 

As I held that sacred space and connected with source, the energy was palpable. 

We leaned into our heart centers, asking them to show us exactly what was ready to be healed, released, and eliminated. 

One member shared, “I realized instantly—I’ve been carrying a heaviness I was never meant to hold.”

Another reflected on the blockages they’d been blaming themselves for, finally seeing that grace is the only way through. Life happens. You’re doing your best.

Then, there was my own deep dive: White Tantric Yoga. Imagine a room full of people in white, heads wrapped to contain and protect their spiritual energy, committing to hours of intensive meditation looking eye-to-eye with a stranger. 

I spent 2.5 hours—a "half day" that felt like a lifetime of processing—sitting across from a beautiful new soul I’d just met.

I sat across from my beautiful partner - a woman I met that morning who is also a yoga teacher in Ventura, CA. 

We chanted one mantra for the entire duration, looked into each other’s eyes and communicated through telepathy, smiles and eyebrow raises. 

It was transformative, raw, and incredibly well-rounded. I sweated, I laughed, I cried, and I felt a surge of righteous anger—all while chanting the mantra: “I, you, Wahe Guru!” 

By the end, I had physically and spiritually closed a chapter of my life that had been clinging to me. Old attachments, outdated thought patterns, and behaviors that weren't "me" anymore simply fell away. 

I emerged brighter, fuller, and more certain of my purpose as a guide and leader. And the universe responded immediately—requests to teach yoga have been pouring in! 

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